Raising Masculine Boys~ Nature Study

 

Monarch caterpillar face, caterpillar eating leaf
(source)

Men are designed to be care-takers of their family and to take dominion over what God has placed in their care while here on earth. Boys need to be prepared for this important task. Nature study enrichment can begin to develop the care-taking dimension of a boy’s heart. It balances his rough and tumble side. He learns how to be gentle with what is placed in his care.

My friend Ingrid is the mother of four boys. I have asked her to share with us some of the  creative ways in which she teaches her very active young men and how she seeks to strike a good balance between being ‘all boy’ and being ‘gentle men’.

Please welcome Ingrid today and stay tuned for more segments on Work, Cooking, Music, Heroes, Study, Exceptional Books, and Service (all centered around boys and developing them into godly men).

This amazing specimen is the Cecropia Moth caterpillar, North America’s largest native moth. We found it in our dogwood shrubs.

“For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse…” ~Romans 1:20

One of the greatest joys in life is sharing Christ with my boys. As the above verse states, God’s character qualities are seen all around us; His creativity in the world, His care for us in the food He provides, the fact that He is a God of order, etc.

One fun and exciting way to teach God’s awesome creation to my energetic boys has been through scientific observation. You too can have special times of learning with your kids. Take them on nature walks, perhaps bringing along a nature journal with colored pencils for them to draw and write down what they discover. Pray for opportunities and keep your eyes open in hopeful expectation of special encounters with His marvelous creation.

Now that autumn is here, it is the right season to see God’s creativity in the variety of caterpillars, larva, and the amazing design of a chrysalis.

Throughout the years, we have discovered many interesting caterpillars and bugs in our own yard, as well as mail-ordered caterpillars to watch them grow. I personally like to bring in caterpillars that we find in nature and do our own research on what they are and how to care for them. Be sure to feed them branches from the plant you found them on. If all goes well, they will start a chrysalis or cocoon before your very eyes.

 boy looking at a caterpillar

Sometimes it takes quite a bit of research to figure out what you found. At first we thought the above picture was of a cocoon, but discovered it moved. After a lot of effort, we think it might be an Elm Case-bearing larva.

Even when things go wrong, you can learn from it.

Do some research and find out what happened. We learned about the tachinid fly that is a parasite to the Monarch. The fly lays eggs on the Monarch caterpillar. The fly’s larva will eventually kill the Monarch, sometimes after it is in the chrysalis. It will then make a tiny hole in the chrysalis through which to come out. A thin, silky string coming out of the chrysalis is a sure sign the Monarch has been attacked.

We can make a spiritual lesson out of this as well, such as how sin or bitterness can grow inside us and consume us if we don’t ask or give forgiveness (or both), and start over fresh.

Monarch chrysalis, ready to emerge

Here is a Monarch chrysalis right before hatching… when they get clear, be sure to keep a close eye on them, because they are ready to come out and amaze you!

Monarch butterfly emerging from chrysalis, boy watching, science experiment

Once we have a new butterfly, we like to put a vase of flowers in so she can drink the nectar. If fresh flowers are not available, sugar water can be used in a pinch. Typically we enjoy the butterfly for a few days and then take her outside to watch her fly free…

As we observe God’s handiwork in butterflies, we also have the opportunity to discuss how the butterfly is a visual example of God’s transformation in our own lives, if we allow Him to work in us.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.” ~2 Corinthians 5:1 

We begin by sharing the simple truths seen in God’s creation when our children are young, and continue to be amazed together at the intricacies of God’s creation as they grow up and learn more complex details of how things work. 

You will see some benefits in the lives of boys given this kind of nature study:

~it develops in them a sense of wonder which stimulates a love of learning

~they want to be good stewards of God’s resources to them

~they begin the journey to become life-long learners

~it increases awareness, reasoning, and observation skills

~it encourages a love of God’s amazing creation, but most of all, a LOVE of the Creator!

Caterpillars are just scratching the surface of what’s wonderful to include before beginning formal science classes. Other areas include the stars, weather, the sun’s influence on seasons, leaves, plants, trees, insects, germination, bees and pollination, etc.

Sites to investigate:

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 a woman, a mother, in a garden

My name is Ingrid. I am first and foremost a daughter of the King, adopted into the family of God through Christ’s grace. Secondly, I am a wife to a wonderful, steady man, and a great father.  I am also known as a mother of boys. We live and home-school on acreage which allows for many adventures and work opportunities for the boys.  We currently have two llamas, two sheep, four cats, a guinea, and multitudes of chickens for farm fresh eggs.  As I look at my role as a mother, I like to think of what I once saw in a letter from www.aboverubies.org:  “I am an Arrow Polisher, a Nation Builder, and a Director of Home Affairs”.  These are fitting titles as I raise my boys to be arrows sent out for the Lord!

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5 Responses to Raising Masculine Boys~ Nature Study

  1. JES says:

    Thank you for sharing Ingrid! That moth was a bit too big for a little feminine creature like myself :) These are wonderful things you are doing with your little men that will help to build the Kingdom and cultivate “good” and “pure” husbands for our daughters!

  2. Lisa says:

    A wonderful post, Ingrid! My boys – and girls – love Nature study and can’t seem to get enough outside time. :) I’m so thankful for their God-given curiosity about nature. :)
    Many blessings,
    Lisa

  3. Ingrid says:

    Thanks for your welcome and encouragement… it has been an honer to be invited to share, and a fun exercise for me to go through old pictures & think about what we have done over the years. May the Lord be glorified… it is an blessing to know that He can work through our imperfections, as there are no perfect moms.

  4. Leah says:

    We got ordered a catepillar last year and watch it for a while. My son was amazed. He would check it every day to see any changes. We finally let them go. Then over the summer he and his friend found another catepillar…this one he found out turned into a moth. We need to go on more nature walks. Thanks for the suggestions…

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